Just a short time ago, I looked back on my life and all the unhappy relationships that I have been in and decided that maybe I was the one who is the problem and not the men that I had been with.  Most of the boyfriends I ever had are now happily married and so, they were obviously not the problem.

This new realization prompted me to go down to the local bookstore and buy a couple books on relationships and see if there was something that I could change before I entered my next relationship.  I found that there were a lot of things that I did wrong and that I had been a very selfish person in all of my previous relationships.

I have been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for a couple of months now and I can honestly say that it is the first happy relationship that I have ever been in.  I have done a lot of changing and I think it helps that I actually like myself a lot better and give other people a chance to like me better as well.